Why Connection Games on Zoom?
• Because we love to play... and even Zoom sessions have been enjoyable and deep
• As a follow-up for those of us who played CG live at the Circling Festival
• As preparation/introduction for our Amsterdam Sep 28-29 weekend: https://partiful.com/e/JbBhGF2dyLjr7UNhbsbQ
• As preparation/introduction for our Berkeley Oct-6 daylong: https://partiful.com/e/ZUnZBSjU7ZIwEPWd2ySf
This event is a gift. Please honor it by playing fully, having fun, and supporting everyone else on the call in doing the same.
To make our time together as enjoyable as possible, please...
• Have a reliable video and audio connection. Avoid or minimize background noise and interruptions. Make sure your name is accurate.
• Come early! The room opens 15min early with the Smalltalk Game
• Review and reflect on our container intentions/agreements:
0. 𝙊𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙏𝙤 𝙐𝙣𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜
1. 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛-𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥
2. 𝙍𝙚𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙣 𝙏𝙤 𝙑𝙪𝙡𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣
3. 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙂𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙥 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝
4. 𝙏𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙄𝙩 𝙃𝙤𝙢𝙚 (𝙂𝙧𝙤𝙬 𝘾𝙤𝙧𝙣)
• read our game haikus, and consider which games you might want to play:
💗 𝐈 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐦𝐞
What do you so love
That you can't wait to share it?
Feel the energy
🛟 𝐁𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐬
I-Thou relating
Weaving shared reality
To embody Love
𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐥
Use the talking stick
Speak and listen from the heart
Honor the silence
𝐉𝐏𝐂 (𝐉𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐲 𝐏𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐨𝐩𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧)
Speak close to normal
Give feedback, stay connected
Reach the outside world
𝐏𝐨𝐨𝐟!
Fairy Godmother
What single wish would you grant
To this person? Poof!
𝐁𝐮𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐥𝐲 𝐎𝐧 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐖𝐚𝐥𝐥
What positive things
Would the group say about you
If you left the room?
𝐓-𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩
Give, receive impact
Feelings in the here and now
Practice deep presence
𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐑𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐬
T-Group building block,
Reveal yourself in dyads
Focused or splash
𝐂𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬
Space is simply held
Through Surrendered Leadership:
Trust, express, be with
𝐇𝐨𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐚𝐭
Follow your interest
Ask questions, keep the seat hot
Welcome sensation
𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐁𝐮𝐭
Not of my business, but...
Interrupt to ask someone
A spicy question
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐚𝐦𝐞
Why would you date me,
And why would you not date me?
Harder truths connect
𝐃𝐚𝐫𝐤 𝐑𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬
Judge, project. Listen.
Take your projection back.
Deepen connection
𝐅𝐥𝐲 𝐎𝐧 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐖𝐚𝐥𝐥
If I wasn't here,
How would you talk about me?
Discuss, then impact
𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐝
Random secret game
For those edgy souls who say
"Hell Yes!" to it all